Calvin…Thank you for telling me what I needed to hear instead of what I wanted to hear…even if it was hard and you had to hear me cry. The tears are cleansing, and you understand that. It hurts right now, but you can see that the pain brings greater happiness down the road. The choices you gave me brought comfort in every direction, and you left it up to me, but the right road was made clear, and you also made sure it was shinier than the other ones. You have a gift…thank you for sharing it with me. I hope your gift works for yourself too….Wendy W, June 2015 , A good friend and colleague of mine Michael Webb, wrote this article and gives great insight on who to take advice from. A few years ago I had a friend whom was having problems in his marriage. He confided in a friend and received some advice. Some very bad advice., The trips typically lasted from three to five days and the travel writers would do almost everything together: eat, tour, shop and.