You know, I always feel for heterosexual (: Someone who is only or mostly emotionally and sexually attracted to people of a different sex or gender than they are themselves.) or bisexual (: A term for sexual orientation which either describes a person who can be sexually and emotionally attracted to people of more than one gender.) folks when they clearly have paid attention to this stuff, done the reading or just talked to women, put it all together and have that “Whoah!” moment about this issue. With so many people reared to think that male-female vaginal intercourse (: When a penis or sex toy is inserted into and held by the vagina while partners move their bodies as feels good to them for the purpose of either sexual stimulation and/or reproduction.) is THE sex (: Different things people choose to do to actively express or enact sexuality and sexual feelings; often this involves genitals, but not always. ) , and how many gender (: Characteristics that are seen or presented as distinguishing between male and female in a society. Gender may or may not include assigned or chosen: social roles, feelings, behaviors and/or presentation or appearance.) issues are often involved in that social conditioning, even though it’s ultimately positive to start reaching these conclusions about the reality of the thing, for plenty of people, it can feel like an awful lot of air is being let out (: Short for ‘out of the closet’. When someone’s LGBTQ+ identity is known to other people.) of the proverbial sails. But really, I swear: it’s a positive realization that benefits everybody., Here's what it was like for eight different women. 1. Marvy, 24. First time: Penis in vagina sexual intercourse. For some people, it takes a little bit of time to really be ready, even when they, Sexual activities involving women who have sex with women (WSW), regardless of their sexual orientation or sexual identity, can include oral sex, manual sex, or tribadism. Sex toys may be used. Romantic or sexual interpersonal relationships are often subject to sexual desire and arousal, which then leads to sexual activity for sexual release..